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Archive for May, 2009

27
May

Stopping World Domination

Posted in Relationships, World Crisis  by admin

*Mothers Awareness: used in the context of this article is the state of awareness that is leading humanity to seek power over others or to conversely to sink into a feeling of powerlessness

Question:

What is REALLY behind the world oil crisis? Everyone seems to be fighting about oil, but is it REALLY about oil, or is oil just the face value? And what, if anything at all, does this teach us about the autonomy and freedom of a country?

Théun’s Guidance:

It IS about oil, and yet oil is but ONE aspect of the REAL challenge we are facing in the world today. What we are REALLY up against is world domination by a handful of power-hungry men that wield an ECONOMIC power like the world has never before known. So freedom, you ask? LOL! WHAT freedom, my friend? Freedom CANNOT and will not be found in addressing the FACE VALUE of what is transpiring within the world today, and neither can freedom be found within the continued SEPARATIVE approach of humanity!

So, my friend, countries can continue to fight for all they are worth to retain their so-called autonomy and freedom, but it will be to NO AVAIL! People will continue to die by their thousands whilst the force of Mother’s Awareness continues to strengthen its hold upon the world! It simply MUST and WILL get worse and worse until finally humanity comes to the realization that freedom can only be found within the ONE humanity! Only once men and women the world over are PRE-PARED and WILLING to step over the barriers of race, creed, culture and religion, in a truly UNITED effort at survival, will we be able to overthrow the tyranny of Mother’s Awareness!

The USA, England and Europe today are merely the PUPPETS of those that pull the strings, and those strings CONTROL the world’s economy. Furthermore, even IF the puppets are TEMPORARILY overthrown, the PUPPETEERS will merely change their TACTICS until such time as humanity has learned that separativeness is NOT what life is all about!

With Warm Regards,
Théun

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22
May

Facing the World Crisis

Posted in World Crisis  by admin

*Old Sorcerers = New World Order, Globalists, International Elitists, Illuminati

Question:

Théun, some of my fellow apprentices and I have decided to ask you “collectively” for guidance on the current world situation. We felt this would save you having to answer the same questions over and over again. There are, of course, many areas of concern and for the benefit of all the other apprentices who will read this, I will go into some more detail than I would have otherwise done.
The New World Order is advancing rapidly and Big Brother is imposing itself onto all areas of human existence. The UK is a good example for the total surveillance world we are headed for. CCTV cameras are everywhere, national databases are being developed and deployed, peaceful campaign groups infiltrated by government spies, soon all phone calls, emails and internet usage will be recorded.

The financial system is being manipulated into crisis to advance the agenda (world currency?) and an economic collapse of most of the world seems very close. An attack on Iran by Israel could over night disrupt oil supplies, cripple the developed world and even affect the most basic survival needs of us all.
Similar developments have affected education and the upbringing of children. Adults are punished for smacking their children, while increasing behavioural challenges in schools are “diagnosed” as medical conditions and children medicated.

And now Codex Alimentarius, a UN programme, is advancing the total control of food. There is concern that organic food will be history, that natural remedies will be illegal without prescription, that medication of animals will be mandatory and that seeds will have to be bought from the big Monsantos of this world.

We have collected the following questions, which we would welcome guidance on. None of us want to act out of and live in fear. But neither do we want to bury our heads in the sand. We want to be practical.

How will we be affected differently if we are in debt or have savings. Is it wise to buy gold? Is there any point now paying off debt? How should savings be used?

Is it advisable to go off-grid and self-sufficient? How bad will the infrastructure get?

What difference can transition towns make (in the UK towns that are transitioning to a sustainable local economy, less dependent on fossil fuels)?

How will different countries be affected? Are there any which will remain relatively free? Is there any one you would recommend people move to?

Thank you, Theun, from me and on behalf of my fellow apprentices.

I send my love to you and the family.

A returning apprentice

Théun’s Guidance:

:) Welcome back my friend! We have missed you. I trust that married life is still being kind to you? and LOL!

The world situation as it stands today is not pretty, and it will still get even worse before humanity finally wakes up and decides to do something about claiming back its power which people have been so very happily handing over to Big Brother for ever and a day. Although we are now entering into probably the darkest period ever in the history of humanity, it was inevitable because of humanity’s inherent laziness and asleepness. And yet I do not feel pessimistic, although I know, and I can SEE, that there is going to be great hardship and suffering very soon from now. In fact, I am totally surprised that the real crunch has not come earlier. Already in September 2006 the world was poised for total disaster, but somehow or the other, so typical of where the world is at today, humanity has managed to spin it out until now.

I say I do not feel pessimistic because I can also see that this time has the potential to be a time of great liberation for humanity. Men and women everywhere ARE slowly, although still MUCH to slowly, starting to wake up to what is happening around them. But the greatest problem still facing humanity, even though it is starting to wake up, is the individual’s sense of apathy on the one hand, and its sense of ignorance on the other hand. In their fear people are desperately trying to IGNORE what is going on, and then when they can no longer ignore the obvious, they submit to a totally debilitating sense of apathy, of “But what can I as one person alone do?” So until such time as that individuals start taking whatever ACTION is open to them, the world situation will continue to deteriorate until finally people everywhere will be FORCED into fighting for SURVIVAL. The action that is MOST required today is for people to drop their pettiness, their gross sense of separativeness and self-centredness, and to start forming GROUPS that CAN and WILL make all the difference. But whilst men and women still hold onto the demented belief that it is every person for him or herself and the devil for us all, we are headed for severe hardship in the immediate future.

You are correct in what you have observed about the United Kingdom. It has very rapidly become a police state, and so too has the United States of America, and Canada and many other countries are following hot on their heels. What is the most tragic about all of this, is the fact that the UK and the USA together form the Heart Centre of the planet. Only a little thought is required to see how very dire are the implications here. The Heart Centre of the planet has fallen under the complete control of the Old Sorcerers, who are but the puppets of the true Dark Forces. I see little point in trying to dress up the evil intentions in this, and neither do I feel I am being of service to all who turn to me for clarity if I were not to spell out the consequences of such a dire straight of affairs. Whether or not the planet and all of life upon this planet survives this very REAL crisis remains to be seen, and will depend upon how WELL men and women the world over FIGHT for their survival once the Old Sorcerers have brought us to the very edge of life. The only thing that today stands between utter disaster and freedom, is humanity’s will-to-good. Will this be enough to energise people into action, into battle? Whether it will be enough or not is no longer relevant, for today it is literally the ONLY thing we have got left. Humanity has already been systematically stripped of its dignity, its ability to think for itself, and most important of all, its divine birthright as a free and creative being. And still Big Brother continues to remove people’s freedom and telling them that it is for their own good. And STILL people WANT to believe them, and STILL they DO believe them!

The financial system is indeed being manipulated towards a complete economic collapse the world over, for once this has been accomplished the power of the Old Sorcerers will be more or else unchallengeable. From there it is a relatively easy step to take full control of the world food and water supplies. And once this has been accomplished, the average man and woman will be the TOTAL dependents of the Old Sorcerers. And this is the very REAL evil facing the world today! People in their IGNORANCE THINK that their future lies in the hands of their political leaders and their governments, little realising that their politicians and governments are today but the puppets of the Old Sorcerers, a relatively SMALL group of totally unscrupulous men whose only desire is for TOTAL power over, and who themselves are but the servants of the Dark Forces, of which there are ten representatives in the world - five in the East and five in the West. The Old Sorcerers today already hold most of the world’s money and gold in their hands, and soon they will also have the world’s food and water resources in their hands.

What you have noted about Israel and Iran is also true, although it is now questionable as to whether this will happen or not. In September 2006 everything was set for this to take place. Israel was ready to invade Iran and the USA army was on the ready to defend and support Israel, but for some strange reason the Old Sorcerers refrained from attacking Iran. Today they have been told in no uncertain terms by Putin that ANYONE who attacks Iran will be deemed an enemy of Russia. So if the Israelis, who really control Washington and New York, were to launch an attack on Iran, there is every likelihood that the world will be plunged into another world war with Russia taking the lead.

What you have noticed about education is also very true. It is the main reason why when I was in education in South Africa I became a lone voice in the wilderness and became mostly feared by MANY of my colleagues, for wherever I went as school inspector I spoke out VERY strongly against the dangers of the modern educational system. Time and time again I pointed out the TRUTH that lies behind the so-called enhancements of the educational system, showing the schools I worked with HOW Big Brother is systematically and willfully stripping children of their ability to think for themselves, and in addition, through the so-called moves towards ensuring the rights of children, purposefully breeding delinquent mentalities that can, whenever necessary, be “legitimately” removed from society for everyone’s good! So instead of our children being educated in the true sense of the word, they are being programmed, schooled, into being either very obedient followers of the system, or else total delinquents that are set up to FAIL when challenged by the system! Even home schooling is today steadily being eradicated the world over because home schooled children pose a threat to the system.

And now I will answer your questions:

“How will we be affected differently if we are in debt or have savings.”

LOL! It all depends upon HOW much savings you have and where! Money is today rapidly losing its value, and banks are on the verge of collapsing. So although savings are good, and indeed necessary, it is best you keep such savings at home in someplace safe. Debt? Well this speaks for itself, does it not? It has been the aim of the Old Sorcerers for a long time now to get average men and women as deeply into debt as possible. People who are in debt are NOT free people, and therefore they can be controlled very deeply, not only physically, but also emotionally and mentally!

“Is it wise to buy gold?”

Yes. As the economic situation continues to escalate towards total disaster, gold must and will again become the true currency of the world. This is not only because it is gold, but also because of esoteric reasons pertaining to gold that we do not need to go into in an email such as this. Yet, having said this, you would also be BLIND if you do not see how even the gold reserves and the price of gold is today being manipulated. There is now also a move towards having all gold stamped in some way. In other words, only gold carrying a certain stamp will have any value, and of course, we all know WHO will have all the stamped gold, do we not?

“Is there any point now paying off debt?”

Pay off ONLY the MINIMUM requirement! The Old Sorcerers got you into debt, and so don’t just pay for the sake of paying.

“How should savings be used?”

INVEST whatever savings you have in EMPOWERING yourselves as much as possible, and thereby ARMING yourselves for the battle at hand! This after all, is the true purpose of a website such as Toltec Legacy. Through the medium of Toltec Legacy I stand ready to play my part in providing people with the needed clarity, with strengthening their belief in themselves, with building their will-to-fight and with building their vision for what sort of world they would like to create for themselves. So, my friend, what I am pointing out to you about your savings, how ever much or however little these may be, is that sooner or later you will have exhausted them once you no longer have an income, and then what? No, this is NOT a time in which to sit on your savings like a squirrel gathering nuts for winter! This is a time of make or break for us all! Therefore I reiterate, INVEST your savings in EMPOWERING yourselves! But it is not just your savings that need to be wisely invested - it is also your TIME and your inner CONVICTION.

You find yourselves here on Toltec Legacy with me and my family of warriors. Is this merely coincidence? Is it merely because you have a personal preference in working with me rather than with someone else? No, I don’t think so!

Could it be that you were guided to me for a reason? Could it be that in working with me you CAN make a difference in the world by learning to fight for your survival? :) Could it be that collectively we are the LAST bastion between light and darkness, between freedom and enslavery to the Old Sorcerers? Could any of this possibly be true? If it were not true, then you only have to look around you. What do you see? What would you LIKE to believe? :) Which part of what I have shared above makes you feel frightened and insecure? Which part of what I have shared makes your heart sing? What is your BELIEF in yourselves? Are you prepared to INVEST in that belief? Or would you rather continue to INDULGE in your ignorance and your apathy?

As you all know, I set out in 2000 to start building a GROUP of people that can and will make a difference in the world, and today those of you who are still left standing with me are strong - much stronger than any who came before you! This is as much to your credit as it is to mine. But now, IF we are to make a difference in the world, I NEED you to help me! Far too few people as of yet know about me and the teachings. In this don’t be fooled by typing my name into something like Google! It is true that I am well and widely known amongst those of you who are the converted, but people in general have still not heard of Théun Mares, and if they have, they have no doubt associated me with the many frauds who today parade themselves under the banner of Toltec. I NEED you, the world you live in NEEDS you, to help me reach as MANY people as possible! The more people we are the greater is our power, for the esoteric principle of “the whole is far greater than the sum of its parts” remains as true today as it ever was!

It is not so much your savings I need, although money is needed, but what I DO need is your TIME and your INNER CONVICTION! I need you to help me bring more and more people into our midst so that I may also put them in TOUCH with THEIR hearts, and thereby strengthen our COLLECTIVE position within the world. There are today fifty of you. If each one of you aimed at bringing at least ten more people to join us on Toltec Legacy, this would make our number 500 in total! A considerable number of people, and the combined power of which will be even greater. Are you prepared to do at least this much? Are you prepared to INVEST at least this much in order to fight for your freedom and for the freedom of all upon our planet?

The world situation, my friend, is today extremely dire, but in this the OPPORTUNITY to achieve great heights has also never before been so great! And this is the Law! The universe stands for ever balanced, and thus we cannot swing to one polarity without creating the POTENTIAL for an equally great and powerful swing the other way. So what is it be? Do you wish to go down in history as men and women who COURAGEOUSLY fought with everything you’ve got to offset the immanent darkness looming and thereby help to create a FREE and glorious world? Or are you going to go down in history unnoticed other than being men and women who like the rest of humanity, succumbed to your ignorance and sense of apathy? The opportunity, my friend, is GREAT, but the decision is entirely YOURS! Stand WITH me and HELP me! Or be at peace in being nothing more than a PASSIVE member of Toltec Legacy, standing by and watching whilst the legacy, the divine birthright of humanity, becomes swallowed up in the darkness descending upon the entire planet!

And now to answer the rest of your questions:

“Is it advisable to go off-grid and become self-sufficient? How bad will the infrastructure get?”

I am not sure what you mean by “off-grid.” Are you referring to the system as a whole, or just to the electricity grid? If you are referring to the system as a whole I say GET OUT if and where you can, and become as self-sufficient as you can be. Dependency spells slavery, and although it is not yet possible to get out of the system ENTIRELY, we must ALL do what we can to either get out of the system as much as is possible, and where it is not possible to do so, to make the system work for us.

“What difference can transition towns make (in the UK towns that are transitioning to a sustainable local economy, less dependent on fossil fuels)?”

This is good PROVIDED it does not become an excuse for separativeness! The time is coming when NONE of us will any longer be able to survive in isolation of one another.

“How will different countries be affected? Are there any which will remain relatively free? Is there any one you would recommend people move to?”

The WHOLE world is becoming involved, my friend! There is today no longer a country in which people will be safe from what is transpiring. There is nowhere left to run to! LOL! There are only countries in which it is EASIER to strategise and to form groups for the purposes of survival. Such countries are mainly to be found in Central and Eastern Europe, for these countries, newly liberated from the restraints of communism are NOT blind to what is for them, AGAIN busy happening! The people, however, are something else! LOL! Having been liberated from communism they are, generally speaking, now so eager to enjoy the “fruits” of westernisation, that they are sitting ducks for the taking! Sad, but true! Their leaders, on the other hand, and the older generations who grew up under communism are mostly wide awake and taking care!

If today we have a beacon of hope as far as political powers go, it is Russia. Russia is destined to be the future, and so far it remains a steadfast beacon of light in a growing darkness.

My friend, I have endeavoured to answer your questions as honestly as I can, and I have endeavoured to address your CON-CERNS with the OPTIMISM and the HOPE that is being called for. As I said, I stand ready to play my part by throwing my knowledge, my strength, my courage and my support into this battle, if I but given the chance to do so. But for now whilst we are still such a pitiful handful, I can only watch and pray, hope and TRUST that you will, EACH and EVERY one of you, on this day make up your MINDS and find your HEARTS, and in this drop your own petty concerns, your fears, doubts and insecurities, and start LIVING the HONOURABLE and POWER-FULL lives of the true warrior as you HELP me to gather those that like you, CAN and WILL make a difference!

I am already doing everything I can. I now need YOUR help! We NEED to grow Toltec Legacy, not only so that I can empower you as a Group, but also so that I have the money with which to develop the internet game I have chosen to call “The Game of Life.” Once I can launch this game I will be able to use humanity’s love for computer games as well as the power of the internet, to reach the hearts of millions of people the world over, and most especially the younger generations who have been programmed into not thinking for themselves. If we CAN do this much, we will be a Group of millions of like-minded people the world over who are READY and PREPARED as much as time and world circumstances permit, to FIGHT an IMPECCABLE battle for our freedom and the freedom of all of life, human, animal, vegetable and mineral, for it is not ONLY man whose survival is today threatened.

I am already scripting The Game of Life, and those around me are learning as fast as is humanly possible, computer skills that are needed, and I TRUST that there will be the necessary money with which to implement this strategy for survival. In this you can ALL help by bringing to Toltec Legacy at least ten more people each, and then if each of 500 hundred people bring another ten people each we will number 5000 people in total, the number of subscribers that are needed in order to fund The Game of Life. Are you WILLING to be of service? Or do you just want to talk and fantasise about the imagined “glory” of being of service?

In the name of service and freedom,
Your nagal and friend,
Théun

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20
May

Misconceptions Concerning Friendship

Posted in Friendship, Relationships  by admin

Question:

Théun, my understanding of the Warrior’s Path is that we should all strive to become our own best friends. Is this correct?

Théun’s Guidance:

Whenever we take ANYTHING out of context we automatically, and by DEFINITION, DISTORT it! So too with learning to become your own best friend! This concept has become such a cliché amongst you that it is in grave danger of becoming horrendously distorted, in the sense of turning into a justification for self-centredness, as opposed to selfishness! Have a good long HARD look at what you REALLY mean by having a CLOSE friend, or a BEST friend! Is this not in most cases just an excuse for behaving and acting in a self-centred and separative fashion?! “I share everything with my best friend, so I have no NEED to share with the rest of the world around me!” “I am my own best friend, and I have learned how to be by myself, to care for myself, and to be happy by myself, and therefore I have no NEED to share with others!”

But HOW can we achieve a TRUE openness of HEART when we continue to ACT in ways that are separative, and then on top of it all, JUSTIFY this in terms of “friendship?” When we DO find ourselves alone in this world, then it is invariably to TEACH us that the WHOLE world and everything in it is the warrior’s best friend! Why? Simply because ALL of life is interrelated, interdependent and therefore interactive! But whilst we continue to CHASE after some “special” person with whom to “share” it, our actions merely indicate the UNWILLINGNESS to truly OPEN UP the HEART in a fully INCLUSIVE manner! Likewise with wanting to become your own best friend just so that you can ESCAPE the CHALLENGES of having to INTERACT in a PURPOSEFUL, MEANINGFUL and INTELLIGENT way with the world around you!

I am NOT saying that it is not possible to have a BEST friend, or even a CLOSE friend, and neither am I saying that you must NOT learn to become your own best friend! But what I AM trying to point out is HOW your perception can get in the way of your FATE and WHAT it is that you are meant to be LEARNING! It is simply NOT POSSIBLE to open up the heart whilst you still continue to ACT, FEEL and THINK in a self-centred and separative manner, wanting and desiring to fulfil the LIKES of the little self, that is, the tonal, or by wanting to ESCAPE the challenges inherent within your daily life!

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18
May

Misconceptions Concerning Love

Posted in Friendship, Love, Marriage, Relationships  by admin

Question:

MY wife and I have agreed that we are going to teach each other how to love each other. I feel this is a step in the right direction, but we wanted to check it with you.

Théun’s Guidance:

You KNOW that this can NEVER work! You cannot teach each other to love each other! Love just IS! Love is what conquers all obstacles! But you cannot teach love. Instead love teaches you! As Kahlil Gibran states it so beautifully, “Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself. Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; for love is sufficient unto love. When love’s wings enfold you, yield to him, though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.”

True, friendship, my friend, starts with ruthlessness! It is not possible for two SELF-IMAGES to become friends! Self-images can at best be partners in crime!

Question:

Théun, if it is true that the heart never lies, then why am I feeling so terrible about having separated from my wife? I realise now that I still love her very much, and wish we were still together in spite of the fact that our marriage never brought either us any joy.

Théun’s Guidance:

The heart never lies, yes! But then the heart never does lie BECAUSE it is ruthlessly honest! In this respect it is true that you still love your ex-wife, just as she will always love you! This much is painfully clear to both of you! :) BUT, my friend, loving someone does NOT imply that having a MARRIAGE with that person is necessarily life-supportive for BOTH of you! It is a PAIN-FULL MISS-TAKE to assume that loving someone necessarily MEANS that one should be MARRIED to that person in the TRUE sense of the word! The heart, my friend, has reasons of its OWN, mostly UNKNOWN to the mind, and always INDEPENDENT of the mind! In this respect you should bear in mind at all times that the mind is feminine to the heart, and therefore CANNOT dictate TO the heart! Therefore the mind CANNOT PRESUME to KNOW the PURPOSE of the heart, but can only SUPPORT that purpose as it is progressively unfolded through the act of intelligent co-operation between heart and mind!

The easiest way in which to grasp this is to look upon true LOVE as being sufficient unto itself! In other words, when you find yourself loving someone the heart does NOT first ask you IF this is okay with you, or IF it is to your liking! Love just IS! This is why Toltecs term Love “IT MOVES!” IT MOVES, whether we like it or not, whether it makes us happy or not, whether it makes us jump for joy or disintegrate into tears! IT just MOVES regardless! It is BECAUSE of this that true Love is, in every possible sense of the word, UNCONDITIONAL!

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16
May

Conflict with One’s Father

Posted in Family, Relationships  by admin

Question:

Théun, I am feeling a revulsion towards my father. He disgusts me. He is so fat and ugly and does not take care of himself or have any self respect. He tells lies constantly and shovels sentimental crap at me about when we (siblings and myself) were kids (mostly remembered in some fantasy not truth). Dad was a real bully and has always been quite nasty. He did have a wicked sense of humour and made us laugh a lot too. But I cannot abide the lies. He is always living in some dreamworld of winning the lottery, he feels sorry for himself, I could go on….and on………

Now maybe he is reflecting my ‘excellent’ qualities back to me. I shall address this.

Then I am feeling pity for dad, none of his family speak to him except me. Poor old git all alone in the world etc. That is an unhealthy way to feel for sure. Guilt is not supportive to the heart.

Then I am thinking well, he is my dad and I have a responsibility towards taking care of him.

Then I am sad, he will not live for much longer, he has had his moments when he has taken care of me and after a fashion does love me - I think, I feel, I dunno.

Then I get mad at him for being such an energy leech, as if he is using my life to live his. But I am choosing to let him, so why get mad?

Then sometimes we actually have a good time together.

Blinking Hell, I am going round in circles. Help.

Théun’s Guidance:

My friend, what I am going to say now is NOT going to be what you want to hear! LOL! But here goes anyway, and then you can shout at me all you want to. :)

We ALL, even you, choose our parents for a reason! Now we do not yet know why you chose the father you did, but choose him you did! So as a warrior it is now YOUR responsibility to learn why you chose him to be your father. Having said this I must also add that there is NO reason as to why you should accept your father’s behaviour. From what you have shared it appears that he is very lonely and with no real purpose within life. Perhaps all he really needs in order to pull himself towards himself is to have a REAL friend spelling out for him what he himself is trying to avoid. So what I would suggest is that you sit your father down for an HONEST chat, and then be totally ruthless with him. Don’t spare his feelings, but be totally FIRM as well as GENTLE in telling him what you think of him, how you see him, and how you feel about him and his behaviour. But in doing this you must take CARE to FIRST spell out to him that you DO want to have a relationship with him because you CARE about him.

I am not saying this is going to be easy, but you do not have too many options open to you. You either CONFRONT him, or you choose to do nothing and let him go to pot completely. I myself had to do something similar with my own father many years ago, but my father would not listen to me beyond the face value of my words. As a result he stormed out of my home without even saying goodbye and left. I let him go, knowing that there was nothing more for me to do at that time. I did not hear anything from my father, or see him, for over a year. But then one day he contacted me again as if nothing had ever happened, except that he had changed totally towards me. From that day on until his death we had a very close and meaningful relationship. :) And in looking back upon my life I CAN see that he had been the very best possible father for me!

With warm regards,

Théun

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13
May

Feminine Leadership

Posted in Gender, Relationships  by admin

Question:

In the modern world of work, women sometimes “lead” men and men sometimes “follow” women. Is it possible for women to nevertheless bring feminine qualities to leadership roles and for men to bring masculine qualities to followership roles, particularly when they are led by women? In my experience as a female supervisor, it seems that with sensitivity I can “lead” in a feminine “style”. My male subordinates, who are capable and resourceful, make excellent suggestions which I “support”; I seldom have to come up with the solutions. I refrain from dictating how they should do their work. Instead, when I suspect that their approach won’t work, I provide my negative feminine feedback but I allow them to do it their way, even when it leads to failure. They quickly learn from their mistakes; I’ve earned their respect for my expertise and thereafter they seek out my feedback. In this way it seems to me that I bring feminine qualities to the role in a way that supports their masculinity. Or can a woman only be a true female and realize her feminine potential in explicitly subordinate/supportive roles?

Théun’s Guidance:

My friend, your grasp of the teachings in this respect is excellent, and your approach is equally so! You are, in fact, doing exactly what you are required to do as a female who is in the “male” role. :) And as you can see, it is working very well.

However, your question about women having to be in subordinate roles makes me laugh! :) Don’t let ANYONE ever tell you that the female is the male’s subordinate, for this is VERY far from the truth! LOL! Supportive? Yes! But even in this the female does NOT have to be subordinate! If she were to do this she would become a doormat which no true male can respect. Once again you are doing this superbly, in that although you are masculine relative to your male colleagues, you nevertheless support them in claiming their power as males. And this is truly inspiring! :)

With warm regards,

Théun

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12
May

Building a Relationship

Posted in Friendship, Relationships  by admin

Question:

I have for a long time struggled to build a good relationship with my mother. Is it really necessary to have a good relationship with one’s parents?

Théun’s Guidance:

:) It is all quite simple, really! Either you LOVE your mother and therefore you WANT to build a friendship with her with your WHOLE HEART, or alternatively you actually couldn’t be bothered! If we TRULY love someone then there are no OBSTACLES, but merely CHALLENGES to face TOGETHER! And by far the BIGGEST challenge of all is to find a way in which to MEET the other person concerned, for unless you find a point at which to MEET you will continually be at loggerheads!

So make up your HEART! Is building a friendship with your mother for you a Path with a Heart, or not? If it is, then stop pissing and moaning and find a way in which to first of all MEET her. What this means is that you must STOP trying to make your mother think, feel, act and see things the way YOU do! Instead you should make EVERY EFFORT to IMPRESS upon your mother that you RESPECT her for who and what she is, but that YOU are DIFFERENT, and that IF you are going to build a REAL relationship then she too MUST begin to acknowledge the DIFFERENCES between you!

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12
May

Hurt Within Friendship

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Question:

For many years I have had a really good friend, someone I have looked up to as being a role model in my life. However, recently he did something that rocked my boat badly and I don’t feel that I can trust him anymore. I feel hurt and confused.

Théun’s Guidance:

First of all let me congratulate you on your honesty and openness. Good! But now start trying to open that BIG heart of yours, for this is what this challenge is all about! :) Start by allowing the male INTO your life unconditionally, even if sometimes it DOES hurt! Remember, my friend, that without the thorns there could be no rose, and ANY relationship takes a great deal of hard work that is neither accomplished overnight, nor without tears! We all get hurt sometime, somewhere along the line, just as all of us have “tripped” to find ourselves face-down in the dirt! Your friend is no exception - he just fell flat on his face. So what?

But I feel that the issue for you is not so much that your friend fell off his pedestal, but rather that when he did, YOU felt a deep HURT! What is this hurt you feel? Why do you feel hurt? These are the questions you should be asking yourself, rather than dwelling upon your friend’s misfortune. In all of this you must now also strive to learn how to TRUST your OWN judgement, for in this way you will always KNOW within your heart of hearts who are your true friends.

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4
May

Requirements for Friendship

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Question:

How does one define true friendship?

Théun’s Guidance:

Friendship is an act of the heart and, as such, it can never be bought, forced or won through manipulation. Friendship can only ever come from the heart, and in the final analysis the only COST of friendship is the UNWAVERING WILLINGNESS to BE that friend! Nothing else is required; not clever words, not clever jokes, and not clever games.

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