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20
Nov

Théun Mares on Marketing, Dieting and Working with Abused Children

Posted in Business, Health, Marriage, Relationships  by admin

Question:

Greetings :)

Your last guidance was very helpful thank you :)

I had a heart to heart with my wife, and she did not contest, although did not agree either. She milled over it for a while and we discussed it later and two issues seem to have come up. Firstly, I believe we have become a bit too familiar with each other, so I am taking measures to rectify this, (I haven’t completed my strategy yet, but I’m working with it as it goes along). The second thing is her experience with past partners have been very different; her ex’s were either very much sexually driven, or just treated her like shit, so she is not used to a man who is not really into sex, or makes any effort to include her in anything else and thus she struggles to not take it personally, or see what else there is in the relationship. She agrees that she may be getting bored with me, but as she thought about all the other facets of our relationship over the next few days, this eased her up a bit.

After discussing this with her, and working on my strategy I can definitely feel a change in our relationship. It seems that by working to become a little less familiar, we have actually gotten closer, and she is worrying less about the lack of sex.

With regards to living in SA I appreciate your honesty on the matter. I had suspected as much, and the more I look into the way the ANC is manoeuvring themselves the more it confirms this. I am currently making arrangements, so that my wife and I may leave if we have to.

My next questions:

Firstly, I would like to know about marketing, I believe this can be a form of seduction? Can you give me some advice on Impeccable marketing and the Toltec stance on this?

Secondly, I have read a few of the answers you have written with regards to health problems and diet, and your answers are quite different from the norm. Could you explain to me how high content of meat and natural animal fats effect the body? I am by no means saying you are wrong, I tried it because I was struggling with stamina in my training sessions and it definitely helped, but I did find my digestion and my skin had a few problems and I felt “heavier.”� Is there a way of getting around this?

Thirdly I do some work with some abused children at lifeline, and every time I go near the place, I get so tired I feel like I could slump over and sleep. I don’t feel like I have pity for them. I realise they have their own challenges they must face. I do enjoy working with them though, but I always end up feeling really shit after I work with them. Is there a way I can prevent this? I know that if I am operating from the heart they shouldn’t be able to drain me. Is this correct?
Your guidance is greatly appreciated :)
With much love and warmth from sunny South Africa

Théun’s Answer:

I am pleased to hear that you find my guidance re your marriage working for you. I would, however, if I were you, NOT be too complacent that you now have it all dusted and sorted! LOL! I still believe your wife is bored with you, and that your marriage has become for her not much more than a comfort zone. But…….that is your business.

The Toltec stance on marketing is the same as for ALL forms of service rendered. Marketing is not wrong provided you OFFER a product or service which is a win-win for both parties concerned. The most successful marketing is always based on first ascertaining the NEEDS of the client, and then seeing HOW you as the supplier can MEET those needs. The kind of marketing which is seductive and therefore not life-supportive, is the type of marketing in which the client is COERCED into believing that he or she MUST have the product or service that is being offered, whether the client really needs this or not. Examples of this can be seen in insurance and credit cards.

You ask about diet, and why I recommend a balanced diet. Note I say BALANCED! I do NOT actually advise people to gorge themselves on meat and animal fat! Instead I advise people to eat a well balanced diet consisting of meat and fish, plenty of fresh vegetables (not frozen), fresh fruit and dairy, meaning milk, cream, butter and cheese. I only ever advise people to eat more meat and fish when they have mental disorders, such as, for example, psychosis or schizophrenia. The reason for this is that the amino acids contained in meat and fish are very soothing and restorative to the nervous system, including the brain.

If your body is not used to big portions of protein, or if your body does not need as much protein as you are eating, then this will cause you to feel heavy and lethargic. But then once again, if you end up feeling heavy it means you are NOT eating what is for YOU a balanced diet. Meat or fish in itself is NOT what causes you to feel heavy, instead it is the LACK of BALANCE that brings about the feeling of heaviness. Your digestive and skin problems are related to your relationship with life around you. So ask yourself what it is about your life that you cannot stomach (digestion) and therefore cannot relate to (skin)? Your change in diet, because it increased the sensitivity of your nervous system, merely brought this issue into focus. So stop staring yourself blind at the face value. LOL! Does this have anything to do with your marriage by any chance? LOL!

Working with people in ANY way can be exceedingly draining unless you know how to protect yourself from their negative energy. By protect I mean knowing HOW to DETACH from people’s problems so as not to IDENTIFY with where they are at. This is easy enough to explain, but not so easy to put into practice unless you know how. People tend to THINK that detachment means indifference, but this is not true. Detachment means the ABILITY to not identify. Operating from the heart is indeed the key to becoming truly detached, but you STILL need to LEARN HOW to detach, and this not something I can teach you in one email. But I can at least point you in the right direction by saying that the reason why you cannot detach from the children you are working with is because you get caught up in the face value of their challenges, rather than seeing WHY they call forth the challenges they have called forth. So to ask about how you can prevent being drained, is an INVALID question! The question you SHOULD ask yourself is WHY have you chosen to do this kind of work? Is it because you wish to be of service? And if so, ARE you truly being of service, for if you are you won’t feel drained? Is it because you are a Do-Gooder? Is it because it makes you feel good about yourself? Being of service, my friend, can at times be hugely exhausting, but never draining. If you are being drained then power is trying to show you something. In this respect look at the familiarity issue that has arisen in your marriage. Where else are you being familiar?

You don’t REALLY like working beyond the face value, do you? :) And I am beginning to suspect that you have your HEAD just a wee bit too high in the AIR! LMAO and

With warm regards,
Théun

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15
Nov

The Spanish Fandango

Posted in Relationships, Warriors Path  by admin

Question:

Théun, is it true that the Fandango dance is about courting, and that it is the most common dance of the Spaniards? And what exactly does all the stamping mean?

Théun’s Answer:

:) What you know about the Fandango is the face value. The Fandango, like ALL flamenco dances, originates from the Spanish Gypsies. The Spaniards as such, do NOT dance flamenco - they dance what are known as the Regional dances, of which there are a great many. Only the gypsies do what you have termed “stamping.” LOL! Stamping is actually called zapadeado, pronounced thapadeado, and meaning FOOT-WORK. The rhythmic clapping of hands and snapping of fingers is called palmas, and the exquisite wrist, hand and arm movements are termed brazos, pronounced brathos.

Why I point all this out is because to the Spanish Gypsies dancing is a SACRED EXPRESSION of their inner search for the Divine Rhythm of the One Life, and they spend their LIFETIMES perfecting their zapadeado, palmas and brazos as an INDIVIDUAL EXPRESSION of the inner Self, and therefore to simply refer to this as so much stamping and clapping is the height of IGNORANCE demonstrating a CONTEMPT for that which is not grasped! Likewise is the Fandango an expression of the eternal STRUGGLE at achieving the ULTIMATE intelligent co-operation between MALE and FEMALE as a REFLECTION of the prime DUALITY of the One Life termed the nagal-tonal. Therefore it is far from accurate to say that the Fandango is merely a courting dance! :)

Furthermore, such is the nature of the Spanish Gypsies that they NEVER have SET dances. The steps are SET, but only in terms of the RHYTHM being utilised. Therefore EVERY time a dance is being performed it is PURE IMPROVISATION, and the dancers BASE their improvisation upon WHAT they are experiencing in the moment, not only between themselves, but even more importantly, what they experience OF themselves in RELATION to the inner Self and how this is reflected within their outer relationships. So, if a couple engage in, let us say the Fandango, they give EXPRESSION to what is going on for THEM at THAT moment in time by making the dance REFLECT this. So if they are experiencing a closeness between them, they will show this in their dance. If they feel DISTANT from one another their dance will show this. If one of them feels close and the other feels like pushing away, again their dance will reflect this. If the relationship between them is being REAL the dance will show this. If the relationship is light and frivolous and superficial, the dance will show this too!

Every wrist movement, every brazos, are to the Gypsies like the Dream symbols are to us. And every rhythm performed with their feet is an expression of their INTENT! Sometimes their zapadeado is soft, almost inaudible, reflecting a deep soul searching, fragile, vulnerable, uncertain; at other times it simply explodes with the exuberant fire of an all-consuming passion and the sheer joy in being alive; at other times it is haunting, repetitive, trying to break free from a recurring pattern, frustrated, filled with a poignant sadness bordering onto despair; but NEVER is the SAME dance repeated ever again; the power lies IN the MOMENT! You will never see the SAME Fandango twice!

Quite something, no? :) This is why I mentioned the transcendental nature of dance to Z. A gypsy couple can express FAR MORE in dancing together in just ONE dance, than we can ever express in a THOUSAND words!

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28
Oct

Théun Mares on the Swine Flu Vaccine

Posted in Health  by admin

*Old Sorcerers = New World Order, Globalists, International Elitists, Illuminati

Question:

Théun, I have been following the recent swine flu hysteria and wanted to ask you whether what I think (and feel) is just some use-less stuff coming from my mind. With regards to the video with Jane Bergermeister’s interview, am I correct in thinking that it is a manipulation by the Old Sorcerers? I think (and feel) that Jane speaks the truth in this interview, but looking at the people around me (in the UK), watching and reading the mass media (mainstream and other), despite the fact that we all need a BIG kick to wake up, I think the claims of the video exaggerate what is going to happen. I feel the whole thing has been created to make people afraid and panic first, and then, when they see that nothing happens, most of them will become even more sceptical to the so-called “conspiracy theories” and more trusting in Big Brother. The fact that nothing happens will serve as a good reason to put people’s minds at sleep from the big shock created by Jane’s interview and the increasing presence of Big Brother everywhere. Also, the way the news about the enforced vaccinations spread should give the Old Sorcerers an idea about whom and how many are alert about this kind of news and HOW the news spread. Or may be I am completely missing the picture and the Old Sorcerers were stopped (or delayed) by the enthusiasm of Jane and the people like her?

But I also have the feeling that this situation creates an equally big opportunity for us? My impression (which may be completely wrong) is that the Old Sorcerers are not ready yet for the enforced vaccination and if they were to make this step, it would still be too early for them. They want to put people completely to sleep, but very gradually. Anyway, with or without them making this step, I have the feeling that all this tension creates an opportunity for us, which we shouldn’t miss. I don’t know what it is exactly, but may be I am completely off-course?

My second question is about Essiac. Awhile ago, while researching for herbs which support the immune system, I found the following recipe for Essiac (recipe is at the end of this request). Briefly, the history of Essiac is that it was given to Rene Cassie by an herbalist from the Ojibwa tribe. It is claimed that Rene Cassie has successfully healed patients with terminal cancer using Essiac. Then the recipe has been handed to Dr Glum, who has been threatened and searched by the well-known IRS. Dr Glum has been told not to reveal the real recipe to anyone. On the other hand, any conventional website related to cancer research claims that Essiac does not heal cancer (and they obviously recommend chemotherapy instead). However, my question is whether Essiac really supports the immune system? If so, does it really HELP in healing cancer? From personal experience I can say that Essiac does very little to my immune system. I mean that if I am about to catch a cold or flu, Essiac can not stop this from happening. But then if I lead a disciplined life, then I don’t catch flu or cold. :) If the recipe is correct and if Essiac does indeed support the immune system, this may be means that I am not setting my intent correctly.

Recipe for Essiac:

1 lb 5oz Burdock Root c/s [6 1/2 cups] 1 lb Sheep Sorrel Lvs., Powder 4 oz Slippery Elm Bark, Powder 1 oz Turkish Rhubarb Root, Powder

(The quantities above are enough for ten two gallon batches.)

Also available: 12 x 16 Amber Glass bottles with caps. They hold first 2 gall batch.

DIRECTIONS TO PREPARE ESSIAC

SUPPLIES NEEDED 2-3 gallon stainless steel pots with lids 1 - strainer 1 - stainless or wooden spatula 1 - funnel 1 - timer (optional) New amber glass bottles with caps.

You will also need:

8 oz Measuring cup of Essiac from mixed materials 2 gallons distilled water

Bring to a hard boil (Takes about 30 minutes). The lid is on all the time, except while stirring. Put in Essiac herbs stir and boil. Boil hard for 10 minutes (adjust flame as needed). Turn off stove and let sit for 6 hours. After 6 hours stir thoroughly and let sit for 6 more hours. After the last 6 hours, turn heat on and bring to boil. At boiling point turn off the heat, strain into pot #2. Clean pot #1 and strain back into pot #1. Immediately pour into bottles and put the caps on (12 x 16 oz bottles). Must be bottled hot. Store in a dark cabinet.

DIRECTIONS FOR USE OF ESSIAC

Take 4 Tablespoons of distilled water. Heat the water. To the heated water add 4 Tablespoons (2 oz) ESSIAC. Mix and drink. To be taken at bedtime on an empty stomach (at least 2 hours after eating). Alternatively, it can be taken in the morning on an empty stomach. If taken in the morning do not eat for at least 2 hours after taking.

ONCE OPENED KEEP REFRIGERATED

Many thanks for your constant support!

Théun’s Answer:

Jane Bergermesiter is telling the truth. We cannot deny the facts, and the facts are not exaggerated. How can you be so sure that nothing is going to happen? Even if this vaccine is not contaminated with bird flu, which is a strong possibility, even just the preservative they use in the vaccine has been proved beyond doubt to cause neuorological disorders. Many of the people who have in the past received this vaccination have become paraplegics.

However, I do agree with you that this is for all of humanity a wonderful opportunity to stand up and fight. But the question is, will humanity fight, or will it only be a few individuals here and there, whilst the masses meekly go to their deaths?

It is hard to know exactly what the Old Sorcerers are up to, but within the web of life it is clear to see that this so-called swine flu is yet another ploy of theirs to gain as much control as possible. This much I can confirm. I can also confirm that this vaccination, from what I have been able to see of it in the web of life, will not necessarily kill people, but it will make them either severely ill or else it will somehow interfere in their ability to think straight. From what I can see the people who will become ill are those that do not want this vaccine, whereas those that will loose their ability to think straight will be those that WANT to hand their power over to Big Brother, because they are too lazy and too apathetic to want to do anything for themselves and by themselves.

I know about Essiac, but I have no personal experience in using it. However, from the ingredients I can tell you straight that it will not cure cancer. There are herbs that cure cancer, but not the ones in Essiac. Also, whoever developed this method of preparing Essiac should have been shot dead a few times over. You cannot extract the healing properties of herbs by boiling the hell out of them. This shows GROSS ignorance and disrespect towards herbs and the art of healing. With such an attitude of RAPE I am not surprised that Essiac has been rendered ineffectual. What I am saying here is confirmed by the dosage given. I have never heard of anything so stupid in all my life! A herb, when it has been properly prepared, is taken in doses of between 10 and 15 DROPS. In severe cases of trauma or shock up to 1 teaspoon of the medication, But NEVER as much as 4 tablespoons! How ridiculous! But the point is, the fact that you CAN take so much Essiac without ill side effects only proves that it is completely ineffective and useless! The herbs that are used for making it are VERY good, but by being treated in this way they have been murdered.

With warm regards,

Théun

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23
Oct

Believing Without Believing

Posted in Warriors Path  by admin

Question:

I am observing the situation I find myself in as well as all my thoughts and emotions surrounding it, but without buying into my thoughts and emotions. Am I on the right track?

Théun’s Answer:

Yes! You are on the right track.

You have a great opportunity right now to learn one of the most difficult Not-Doings the apprentice to the Warrior’s Path ever has to learn, namely, believing without believing! It appears to be so simple and so easy to accomplish, and yet in practice it is fiendishly difficult to do. Why? Because until you gain proficiency in ACTING AS IF you believe, when your mind is screaming at you that you are CRAZY, you will find yourself swinging violently between the polarities - sometimes very clear that you DO believe, whilst at other times doubting even your sanity, telling yourself that you are deluded, and wanting nothing more than to run away from the challenge!

But once mastered you will find a freedom within this Not-Doing that will enable you to tackle challenges that most people find incomprehensible and too frightening! Put quite simply, you will then have the freedom to ACT upon what your FEELINGS are telling you WITHOUT succumbing to FEAR! You will have learned to TRUST your heart and therefore to act even though you have NO proof and NO guarantees! THAT, my friend, is a freedom most people can only ever achieve TEMPORARILY in MOMENTS of DIRE crisis and REACTION!

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16
Oct

The Fear of Being Vulnerable

Posted in Gender, Relationships, Warriors Path  by admin

Question:

Théun, can you please help me with fear? I have a reached a point where I feel fear in most of my interactions with the world around me. I don’t know what is wrong with me, for when I am not fearful I am angry. But then I become fearful again because of having expressed my anger. All of this seems to have become worse ever since X and I came to consult with you in South Africa. My feeling is that this has got to do with fear of power and authority. Am I on the right track, Théun?

Théun’s Answer:

:) You have a HUGE heart filled with a great deal of warmth - a warmth you long to SHARE, but you are too frightened to be VULNERABLE, and so you choose instead to live a LONELY existence, even though it brings you no joy. So, yes, you find yourself swinging between the polarities of FEAR and ANGER. The fear comes up when you WANT to OPEN UP - it comes up because you fear REJECTION, fear being HURT, fear making a fool of yourself.

But then the anger kicks in, an anger at YOURSELF, but which you then PROJECT onto the other person. But remember that anger is ALWAYS the desire to fight for CLARITY, to find the KNOWLEDGE which is lacking, to find the way forward. But when that anger is directed AT, whether this is at yourself or at someone else, it goes nowhere other than to CONFIRM to you that you have been wronged, misunderstood or whatever. This is why I have so often teased you about surrounding yourself with fierce women, for you so NEEDED these fierce mirrors to help you gain an insight into your shortcoming, Bigotry. :) What I am saying, Y, is that if you look deeply enough you will find that it is easier for you to hold onto the bigot’s view of the world than to allow yourself to be fully open and vulnerable so that you CAN express your love and your warmth.

So what happened for you in South Africa? You and X came to me because you both so WANTED to support me in the work I am doing. I shared with you both that I do NOT have the time to DO what you both proposed, but that if you REALLY want to help me, and support me, then you must STRIVE with EVERY fibre of your being to be the BEST Y and X you can possibly be. I even went on to say that I love you both and BELIEVE in you to BE the BEST, but you must please DO it FOR yourselves and BY yourselves, meaning, please do NOT do it for ME, but for YOU, because it is YOU that the world NEEDS!

I tried so hard to get the message through to you that although I would truly LOVE all the support you were offering me it is not PRACTICAL, quite besides which, the only REAL support you CAN give me is to JOIN me on the battle field of life and to fight for all you are worth to HELP create the world we wish to live in. But you can only DO this if you do it FOR yourselves and BY yourselves out there, using your OWN personal power and your OWN belief in SELF! I even got Z to assist me in this by asking her to give you the female, or more precisely, the NEGATIVE input! B-:) But you and X were furiously hanging onto the Bigot and the Romantic respectively, and so you felt attacked, annihilated, belittled, unappreciated, disillusioned and whatever else you felt at the time. LOL! I point this out, NOT as an accusation, but in an effort to bring you the clarity you are seeking.

Later, upon your return to the UK, you wrote to me again, making offers with respect to possibly organising for Z to run workshops in the UK, but you came at me from the angle of money! LOL! It was then that I whacked you senseless for offering me MONEY instead of your HEART, your WARMTH, your LOVE! But still you chose to retreat in fear, and then later in anger! You may have suppressed the anger, I am not sure, but I could see the anger in you, much as I can see it in L now. Right now I am not on L’s Christmas Card list! LOL!

Y, if you are hungry, you can always find a way to eat; if you need money you can always find a way in which to make money. But what of the millions of lost souls out there that live in a COLD and HOSTILE world? As I said to M at this past retreat, “Where will these people find the love, the understanding, the support, they so long for?” Food may be scarce, and money too may be scarce, but not anywhere NEAR as scarce as TRUE under-standing and TRUE support! The world out there, my friend, needs your HEART, your WARMTH, and not your money as such, or what you can do FOR them! :)

So is it REALLY power you fear? Is it really authority you fear? :) No, my friend. What you fear the most is OPENING your HEART to the world around you, because what happens if you get it wrong, if you screw-up, if you get rejected and hurt? So is it really ME you fear, my friend? No! What you fear IN me is my UNBENDING intent to go out there and to give it my ALL! This is the MIRROR you fear! :)

Take the retreats as an example. What is it about them that REALLY disturbs you? Have you noticed that it is not REALLY the clarity people get at the retreats that makes a DIFFERENCE in their lives? Have you noticed that it is not REALLY having the teachings made CLEAR and PRACTICAL for them that makes the difference? Have you noticed that what truly TOUCHES and therefore makes the REAL difference is being LISTENED to with love, with warmth, with under-standing and with support! Within this last sentence, Y, lies ALL of the ESSENCE of the TRUE teachings that can NEVER be verbalised, for they can only be WITNESSED.

I trust this will guide you in the right direction.

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12
Oct

The Cause of Misery

Posted in Relationships, Warriors Path  by admin

Question:

Théun, I am feeling incredibly miserable as of late. Can you help me see why?

Théun’s Answer:

LOL! You are feeling so miserable because you can’t think STRAIGHT! Your DISTORTED perception is enough to make ANYONE miserable! I see the lights burning, but……………?

My friend, the ONLY cause of misery is the INABILITY to grasp the INTERRELATIONSHIP of Life! By the time the MIND has stuffed everything into nice NEAT little boxes and LABELED the boxes, you have so MANY boxes, EACH with their OWN label, that you can no longer see the wood for the trees!

So no bloody wonder you are feeling so goddamned miserable, you old fool!

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2
Oct

A Warriors Approach to Being Alone

Posted in Friendship, Relationships  by admin

Question:

I feel I can never truly share me with my friends. This makes me very unhappy and frustrated to the point of wanting to lash out at my friends rather than to share with them. How does one work with this?

Théun’s Guidance:

LOL! I know this feeling only too well! I have lived with it, in one way or another, for my ENTIRE life! There is SO little of who and what I am, there is SO little of the knowledge I DO have that I can TRULY share with others OPENLY! Instead I find myself SERVING the NEEDS of others, and this is where it stops! LOL! So if I am required to mop the floor, then I mop the floor! When I am required to bring clarity, then I bring clarity! When I am required to answer a question, then I answer the question! But hardly EVER do I EXPRESS more than what I have been ASKED to do! Why? Because people rarely if ever understand that which they cannot call forth. So I have LEARNED to give ONLY what is asked of me because today I KNOW that to give MORE than is asked for or is required, is to expose the other person to a knowledge for which he or she is not YET ready to take RESPONSE-ABILITY!

But all of this has NEVER killed or SILENCED within me my deep and INSATIABLE love for and of Life! True, sometimes the LONGING to have someone with whom to truly SHARE my passion for Life can become overwhelming if I ALLOW it to, but then I CHOOSE to RE-MEMBER that ALL-ONE are we born and ALL-ONE we die, so why the big hullabaloo about THAT which cannot be for now? So I go put on one of my most favourite pieces of music, I turn it up loud and I REVEL in being QUIET with my SELF within me! :) Alternatively I read one of my most loved pieces of prose or poems, and give thanks inwardly for the BEAUTY the author or the poet enables me to see within ALL of life around me!

You see, my lovely friend, it is INFINITELY more pleasurable to travel ALL-ONE than to feel lonely and hard-done-by! LOL!

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30
Sep

Mental Obsession and Fear

Posted in Health, Warriors Path  by admin

Question:

I have had bad eyesight for a number of years, and I also get terrible migraine headaches. I know that I also have a tendency to become obsessed with finding clarity. Are these three related in some way?

Théun’s Guidance:

Your bad eyesight, as well as your tendency to get migraine headaches is the result of your mental obsession which comes from fear. What are you so afraid of? What is it that you do NOT want to look at? And why is it therefore so important for you to become mentally obsessed about anything and everything?

Also, your lack of clarity likewise comes from your mental obsession. When one is obsessed one MUST become selective in one’s perception, for it is not possible to be OBJECTIVE and obsessed simultaneously!

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18
Sep

Using Superstition as a Justification for Victimhood

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Question:

Théun, my mother and I very much need your help and your guidance. Therefore if I may please ask?

My mother has become enormously tired and does not have the energy to do anything. I recently took her to see two independent healers, and they both confirmed that my mother is under a spell of black magic. The one healer confirmed that she could see the witch who is already dead, but hovering near my mother, draining her of her energy. This healer has started to heal my mother, and my mother is feeling stronger and healthier.

I too am feeling strange. I have this pressure squeezing my head all the time. In addition I recently met a young woman to whom I immediately felt attracted. The moment I am with her all I want to do is to kiss her. Yet she also frightens me, for I feel that she too could be a witch, and if not, at least possessed by some strange creatures making her behave like a seductress. She sometimes behaves in very strange ways! Also, I almost always feel seduced by her when I am in her company, although afterwards I always feel like I have again regained my sobriety.

Can you help us, please?

Théun’s Guidance:

I cannot help but feel that you are being rather superstitious and jumping to conclusions.

I have worked with many people who have sworn blind that they have been bewitched, or are under some kind of a curse or spell. But in all of these cases it turned out that the so-called curses existed only in their MINDS! By this I am not saying that sorcery and black magic do not exist, but from my own experience I know that sorcerers have better things to do than to attack an old woman for no rhyme or reason. Why on earth would some witch wish to kill your mother? Has your mother even met this witch? And what was the interaction between them? My feeling is that your mother is in victim mode BIG TIME, and is using black magic as an EXCUSE for not WANTING to face up to the real challenges in her life! It is always so much easier to blame someone else for the mess in our lives, and if it can be a witch, well that is even BETTER! Who can hold someone who is under a curse accountable for her own behaviour? What a lovely excuse! :)

What you feel around your head is a typical symptom of too much physical stress. You are probably not getting enough sleep and/or drinking too much alcohol. I can assure you that the symptom you describe is not black magic. But your SUPERSTITION will still GET you, if you do not stop indulging in such fantasies! I can assure you that the mind is far more powerful than any witch!

As for the girl that you mention. Are you sure she is not taking drugs? And it sounds to me that she could be EMOTIONALLY unstable. Although emotionally unstable people are OBSESSED, they are not POSSESSED by alien entities! If this woman is really possessed you would NOT want to kiss her, no matter how masculine you may be feeling! LOL! And if you were to meet a REAL sorceress you would most certainly not be entertaining any romantic notions about her! Instead you would be shaking in your boots, if not defecating in your pants!

You really are far too superstitious for your own good! And I would stop seeing this young woman, if I were you, for it sounds to me as if she is up to no good, even if she isn’t a witch, or possessed!

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16
Sep

The Nature of Life

Posted in Warriors Path  by admin

Question:

I acknowledge that life is a serious matter. And I take it that this is why we have to act like responsible adults. Am I right?

Théun’s Answer:

NO! You have got it wrong AGAIN, you silly Scholar!

Life is NOT a serious matter! Life is FUN! Laughter is FUN! Tears are FUN! Battles are FUN! Winning and losing is FUN! You see, my Scholarly friend, life is meant to be EN-GAGED and EN-JOYED just for WHAT it is - Life!

Life only ever becomes a serious matter when you set about trying to FIX it with GRIM DETERMINATION! LOL! Learn instead to EN-JOY life, like a butterfly that loves to fly from flower to flower, for no other reason than that it CAN fly!

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