Question:

Greetings

Your last guidance was very helpful thank you

I had a heart to heart with my wife, and she did not contest, although did not agree either. She milled over it for a while and we discussed it later and two issues seem to have come up. Firstly, I believe we have become a bit too familiar with each other, so I am taking measures to rectify this, (I haven’t completed my strategy yet, but I’m working with it as it goes along). The second thing is her experience with past partners have been very different; her ex’s were either very much sexually driven, or just treated her like shit, so she is not used to a man who is not really into sex, or makes any effort to include her in anything else and thus she struggles to not take it personally, or see what else there is in the relationship. She agrees that she may be getting bored with me, but as she thought about all the other facets of our relationship over the next few days, this eased her up a bit.

After discussing this with her, and working on my strategy I can definitely feel a change in our relationship. It seems that by working to become a little less familiar, we have actually gotten closer, and she is worrying less about the lack of sex.

With regards to living in SA I appreciate your honesty on the matter. I had suspected as much, and the more I look into the way the ANC is manoeuvring themselves the more it confirms this. I am currently making arrangements, so that my wife and I may leave if we have to.

My next questions:

Firstly, I would like to know about marketing, I believe this can be a form of seduction? Can you give me some advice on Impeccable marketing and the Toltec stance on this?

Secondly, I have read a few of the answers you have written with regards to health problems and diet, and your answers are quite different from the norm. Could you explain to me how high content of meat and natural animal fats effect the body? I am by no means saying you are wrong, I tried it because I was struggling with stamina in my training sessions and it definitely helped, but I did find my digestion and my skin had a few problems and I felt “heavier.”� Is there a way of getting around this?

Thirdly I do some work with some abused children at lifeline, and every time I go near the place, I get so tired I feel like I could slump over and sleep. I don’t feel like I have pity for them. I realise they have their own challenges they must face. I do enjoy working with them though, but I always end up feeling really shit after I work with them. Is there a way I can prevent this? I know that if I am operating from the heart they shouldn’t be able to drain me. Is this correct?
Your guidance is greatly appreciated
With much love and warmth from sunny South Africa

Théun’s Answer:

I am pleased to hear that you find my guidance re your marriage working for you. I would, however, if I were you, NOT be too complacent that you now have it all dusted and sorted! LOL! I still believe your wife is bored with you, and that your marriage has become for her not much more than a comfort zone. But…….that is your business.

The Toltec stance on marketing is the same as for ALL forms of service rendered. Marketing is not wrong provided you OFFER a product or service which is a win-win for both parties concerned. The most successful marketing is always based on first ascertaining the NEEDS of the client, and then seeing HOW you as the supplier can MEET those needs. The kind of marketing which is seductive and therefore not life-supportive, is the type of marketing in which the client is COERCED into believing that he or she MUST have the product or service that is being offered, whether the client really needs this or not. Examples of this can be seen in insurance and credit cards.

You ask about diet, and why I recommend a balanced diet. Note I say BALANCED! I do NOT actually advise people to gorge themselves on meat and animal fat! Instead I advise people to eat a well balanced diet consisting of meat and fish, plenty of fresh vegetables (not frozen), fresh fruit and dairy, meaning milk, cream, butter and cheese. I only ever advise people to eat more meat and fish when they have mental disorders, such as, for example, psychosis or schizophrenia. The reason for this is that the amino acids contained in meat and fish are very soothing and restorative to the nervous system, including the brain.

If your body is not used to big portions of protein, or if your body does not need as much protein as you are eating, then this will cause you to feel heavy and lethargic. But then once again, if you end up feeling heavy it means you are NOT eating what is for YOU a balanced diet. Meat or fish in itself is NOT what causes you to feel heavy, instead it is the LACK of BALANCE that brings about the feeling of heaviness. Your digestive and skin problems are related to your relationship with life around you. So ask yourself what it is about your life that you cannot stomach (digestion) and therefore cannot relate to (skin)? Your change in diet, because it increased the sensitivity of your nervous system, merely brought this issue into focus. So stop staring yourself blind at the face value. LOL! Does this have anything to do with your marriage by any chance? LOL!

Working with people in ANY way can be exceedingly draining unless you know how to protect yourself from their negative energy. By protect I mean knowing HOW to DETACH from people’s problems so as not to IDENTIFY with where they are at. This is easy enough to explain, but not so easy to put into practice unless you know how. People tend to THINK that detachment means indifference, but this is not true. Detachment means the ABILITY to not identify. Operating from the heart is indeed the key to becoming truly detached, but you STILL need to LEARN HOW to detach, and this not something I can teach you in one email. But I can at least point you in the right direction by saying that the reason why you cannot detach from the children you are working with is because you get caught up in the face value of their challenges, rather than seeing WHY they call forth the challenges they have called forth. So to ask about how you can prevent being drained, is an INVALID question! The question you SHOULD ask yourself is WHY have you chosen to do this kind of work? Is it because you wish to be of service? And if so, ARE you truly being of service, for if you are you won’t feel drained? Is it because you are a Do-Gooder? Is it because it makes you feel good about yourself? Being of service, my friend, can at times be hugely exhausting, but never draining. If you are being drained then power is trying to show you something. In this respect look at the familiarity issue that has arisen in your marriage. Where else are you being familiar?

You don’t REALLY like working beyond the face value, do you? And I am beginning to suspect that you have your HEAD just a wee bit too high in the AIR! LMAO and

With warm regards,
Théun

*This article is taken from the website www.toltec-legacy.com with the permission of the administrators. tag: theun mares

Question:

Do drugs help psychosis?

Théun’s Answer:

No. Drugs SUPPRESS psychosis, which causes the situation to aggravate. The cure of psychosis lies in helping the person concerned gain conscious control over the movement of the assemblage point - not in suppression!

Question:

Théun, for me one of the worst aspects of psychosis is the abnormal level of fear that sometimes just surfaces spontaneously. How should I tackle this fear when it comes up?

Théun’s Guidance:

The best thing to do when the fear comes up is to play some music. Please play ONLY Bach or Vivaldi when the fear is there. Do not play the music loudly, but at a GENTLE volume. The music of both Bach and Vivaldi is very soothing for the emotions, and also relaxes and cleanses the nervous system. In listening to the music, focus on the music and not on the fear, and allow yourself to FEEL how the music moves through you and around you. As the music begins to build in intensity you will at first feel the tensions rising within you, but stay with the tensions, do not fight them, and then as the music begins to resolve itself you will feel the tension as well as the fear within you also being resolved. It will bring you a sense of peace and well-being.

If the fear comes up when it is not possible to listen to music, then do the Cleansing Breath from the Dreaming Exercise until the fear subsides.

Administrators Note: Due to the fact that only the guidance that was called forth by apprentices is preserved in the Toltec Legacy teaching facility, the record of the results of following the guidance in this set of posts is not stored. However, I know personally that this woman was able to heal her psychosis and become fully functional within her life.

*This article is taken from the website www.toltec-legacy.com with the permission of the administrators. tag: theun mares

Question:

Théun, what causes the accelerating process in psychosis? Does a low level of blood sugar have anything to do with this?

Théun’s Answer:

The cause of accelerating psychosis is invariably due to a lack of sleep, for someone with psychosis finds it hard to sleep well. The thing to do is to avoid alcohol, caffeine, chocolate, sugar and fizzy drinks, but eat as MUCH meat as you can stomach! By meat I mean RED meat, most especially pork and beef. You should also drink as much milk as you can, and by this I mean glasses full of milk, not just milk in your tea or with a cereal. You must also eat PLENTY of cream, cheese, butter and FRESH greens, with a LITTLE fruit here and there! Low blood sugar level is NOT due to a LACK of sugar, but rather to too MUCH sugar! Before going to bed at night, you should eat a bowl of cereal with FULL CREAM yoghurt, or with milk ENHANCED with extra cream added in order to correct the blood sugar level.

Apart from diet, the proper administration of herbs is also important. You need herbs that will curb the flow of adrenaline, that will calm the nervous system and allow you to REST because of their soothing effect on the emotions. This will ASSIST in HALTING the acceleration process. Once the acceleration process has been halted you need help in RESTABILISING your perception. What helps greatly in this regard are herbs that restore the chemical imbalances in the body and the nervous system caused by the psychosis and which are factors contributing to the acceleration process.

*This article is taken from the website www.toltec-legacy.com with the permission of the administrators. tag: theun mares

*The Assemblage Point is known to those on the warriors path as the point within the energy fields of man where perception is assembled. For the purposes of this set of articles it is only necessary to understand that how one perceives the world is dependent upon the location of this point within a man/woman’s energy fields. When the assemblage point’s position changes, so does the persons perception of the world, much like a dial on a radio. The farther the shift, the greater the difference in perception.

Question:

Théun, I desperately need your guidance. I have been diagnosed as being psychotic, and unless I can control my behaviour I am going to get locked away in an institution. I feel frightened and lost. Can you please help me?

Théun’s Guidance:

I can help you, and I will, but first I will explain to you the diagnosis, and then if you still WANT my help I will explain wherein lies the cure. In doing this I am going to be totally ruthless and FRANK with you, for we do NOT have the time to play silly games here!

Z, technically speaking, what has happened is that your assemblage point has become destabilised. Fortunately for you, you CAN still manage to control the movement of the assemblage point sufficiently well to FORCE yourself back into your NORMAL awareness when you HAVE to. However, as you have discovered and been sharing with Y, your psychosis is accelerating, which is why I say we do not have the time to play silly games.

The first thing you need to know is that a DESTABILISED assemblage point is NOT the same thing as a FLUID assemblage point. A fluid assemblage point means that one can move and shift the assemblage point AT WILL and one can ASSEMBLE the new PERCEPTION also AT WILL. But this is not so when the assemblage point has become destabilised. A destabilised assemblage point means that the assemblage point, given a certain trigger, starts to move ERRATICALLY and WITHOUT the VOLITION of the person concerned. Moving erratically the assemblage point cannot be CONTROLLED and therefore FOCUSED on ASSEMBLING perception in a COHERENT manner, and it is the result of this RANDOM and unfocused perception that the psychologists and psychiatrists term psychosis. Once the psychosis reaches a CRITICAL level one of two things happens; either the person concerned develops a SPLIT personality, or even several personalities, called schizophrenia, or else the person slips into a state of PERMANENT psychosis. What I have learned in the time I have been observing you is that, in your case, unless we cure the psychosis you show every sign of slipping into permanent psychosis and, once again in YOUR case, for not all psychotics are the same, you become violent and hugely destructive when in this state. Not pretty, I agree, for if you WERE to INDULGE in this illness, rather than cure it, you could end up knifing someone! So, yes, my friend, it IS serious!

What is the CAUSE of your psychosis? I have already once before pointed out to you that you have become allergic to life. Why? Because you have experienced MUCH hurt in this lifetime, and what DRIVES your HUGE fear is the fear of REJECTION and ABANDONMENT. In order to COPE with this fear you have UNCONSCIOUSLY been FORCING yourself for your entire lifetime up until now to ESCAPE from life in whatever way you have been able to do so. What this has done, and no doubt the cannabis you used to smoke contributed in this respect, is to slowly but surely destabilise your assemblage point. As this started to happen you started to have “visions” and “other-worldly” experiences which, of course, became for you the much sought-after ESCAPE you were looking for and believed you needed. So without even knowing WHAT you were doing you were making yourself psychotic in an attempt to keep on escaping the hurt you couldn’t cope with, as well as your HUGE fear of rejection and abandonment.

By FAR the biggest PROBLEM in dealing with psychosis is that every now and then during psychosis the person concerned STUMBLES across a GRAIN or PEARL of genuine INSIGHT and TRUTH, just enough to placate the person into believing that he or she is okay after all, and not in fact going crazy! However, when then the “visions” during psychosis are just plain non-sensical rubbish the psychotic will DESPERATELY try to make sense out of this non-sensical alignment of perception by starting to FANTASISE about what has been perceived whilst in this state. The result of such fantasy based upon a non-reality is DELUSION, and all too often, DELUSIONS of GRANDEUR. It is exactly BECAUSE of this problem that I asked IF you still WANT me to help you!

What is the flip-switch for you? You already KNOW what this is, for in one of your emails recently you stated that the “love is becoming dangerous.” So we have a dilemma here, as you can see. On the one hand you feel SAFE here in the Group, and you also know that I ANCHOR you; but on the other hand, the OPENNESS within the Group terrifies you, especially the WARMTH and the FRIENDSHIP, for you have come to associate this with potential hurt, rejection and abandonment. Yet, in having pointed this out, should you WISH to be healed I believe the best place for you to be IS here within the Group. But, YOU, my friend, must decide for yourself! You yourself have degrees in medicine and in psychology, so you should also be quite CLEAR on the state of your mental health.

There is one more thing I should warn you about concerning psychosis. During states of psychosis it becomes relatively easy to IMAGINE in the TRUE sense of the word. By this I mean that you can start to MATERIALISE things simply by ACTING AS IF! In other words, my friend, you can USE the teachings to ENHANCE your psychosis, or to HEAL your psychosis. Also, I would STOP, if I were you, keeping IMAGINING that you are activating the kundulini fire. What you have shared with Y concerning the electricity in your hands, and the heat in your body is DANGEROUS beyond measure! You have already read enough on the effects of this to KNOW that you are in danger of spontaneous combustion! For heaven’s sake just STOP this, Z! The more you FOCUS on this heat and electricity, the more your INTENT is going to MATERIALISE it! So STOP focusing on it, for your OWN good!

Z, if you WANT me, I am here for you! I also want you to KNOW that I DO love you and that I will NOT reject or abandon you unless you FORCE me to do so! I can also HELP you to cure your illness, but YOU are going to have to DO the work! It is utterly IMPOSSIBLE for anyone to heal someone who does not want to be healed, for such a person has already set a NEGATIVE INTENT, and no healer, no matter HOW good, can work against a negative intent.

*This article is taken from the website www.toltec-legacy.com with the permission of the administrators. tag: theun mares